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How to Impress Her on your First Date

How to Impress Her on your First Date

After all the time you invested on chatting together, she now agreed to meet-up. Perhaps a dinner or a movie night would be great. However, it is natural that you feel somehow pressured, but just think positive that everything will go well. This is it, man! Do not let her down with her expectations on you. Follow these tips for a date she will always be looking forward again.

Put perfume

This does not mean like you were soaked in it or spilled half of it on your suit. Put an ample amount especially on pressure points and you’re good to go. Make sure that the moment you get close to her, you can satisfy her sense of smell. That’s a good reason to make her imagine more kissing and cuddling in the future.

Don’t be late

Okay, it is understandable if you’re from office and went straight rushing to the meeting place. Though there are other concerns or casualties happened about work or while on the way, show her that she is a priority and not like just an option to be included in your schedule.

Don’t be too formal

(Especially when it comes to clothes and conversation) Arriving on your date night wearing coat and tie is reasonable enough when you came from work or a business trip. But being too formal sometimes intimidates, or worse, bores women. It’s a nice thing that she enjoys your company while not having to worry with scripted lines. Talk casual.

Walk/take her home

An act of a gentleman which every woman likes. The time and attention a man gives show that she is special and valuable.However, if she refuses, you can still offer to accompany her to the bus stop or terminal. It would be always courteous to ask her. 

What Women Like in Guys

Believe it or not, women do not fully rely on the body and face, that’s good news! They have a particular standard list on mind that they always check whenever they meet a guy. I’m sure you will not have a hard time catching up girls as these traits come out naturally from you. Let us examine what are those.

Adventurous – the world is big. There are a lot of places to go and things to experience. Women are regarded as gentle and discreet, but others have the same level of being adventurous like guys. It is an influence anyway and they’ll soon find doing everything enjoyable with you. Spending time with each other means a lot of good time together.

Smart – women find it so appealing when a guy shows intellect. It is not all about the high grades in class, but more on simple decision making. It shows that you know what you’re doing in every area of your life, like planning a long-term relationship with someone soon.

Straightforward – hearing you say “I like you” means a lot to a woman, so much more the phrase “I love you”? She knows how you earned up some courage to confess your feelings. A man may not have all the good words to talk about love, but being direct to the point is like being strong to your words. Women like it when guys tell them what’s running inside their minds.

Passionate – it is very common that guys have so many hobbies, but very rare are those passionate about something. Women have this kind of thinking: “He likes mathematics, must be an engineer. He likes drawing, must be an architect. He likes basketball, must be an mvp player. He likes music, must be a musician. He likes to cook, must be a chef. He loves me, must be my partner for the rest of my life.” You know, women go for the extremes.

Honest – it’s a woman’s first desire from men. They don’t like headaches from lying and cheating. It is kind of a relief as well. If you really are serious, just be honest about your feelings.  You’ll be surprised how she will get attached into you deeply.

Funny – or should I say witty and someone with a sense of humor. It is not about how many jokes you crack during office hours or how good you are at making faces. It’s more on the casual cheesy pick-up lines because it is not that easy to think of something spontaneously. Moreover, it is never hard to get along with women as long as you are not oozing with too much confidence which may turn them off easily in the first place. Let them admire you naturally. 

How to Catch a Cheater

How to Catch a Cheater

In the beginning of dating someone, trust is one of the biggest factors to be considered. Being open to your partner determines how deep your closeness is. Before you enter into a relationship, investigate one’s background especially what happened to his/her past relationships.  Remember, it’s better to hear the bitter truth rather than the sweetest lie.  Guard your heart before discovering something you wish you had not. Look at your partner and see what matches our list below:

Being defensive – the moment when you simply ask about something or someone, a one line question has a reply of like a one paragraph words.

Gets mad or distracted easily – even without the subject of a third party, the usual person you talk to has something unusual with what s/he does. Your partner’s mind is flying to something or someone else. Do you know the scenario of asking the same questions for so many times because he is not aware of his/her surroundings? Be curious about it and take note of his/her consistency in answering.

Changes what’s being talked about – whether this might be about a person, what s/he did on that particular day, or where his/her appointment may be, a sudden change of the subject happens. Or the worse thing is, you did not receive any response and pretend s/he did not hear or read anything from your messages.

Does not give straight answers – you are expecting a yes or a no answer and then s/he responded with an off-topic answer or a question, too. These include mostly uhm, what and why. One example is, “Did you talk to your ex-girlfriend in the office?” He says, “We did not eat lunch together.” Ladies and gentlemen, what’s with the lunch thing all about? Chances are, they actually talked, greeted, or even smiled at each other.

Does not look you in the eye – this last point is however, somehow tricky. A person who got used to lying knows and plans every move he executes. Beware!

With all those stated above, we should still give the trust that our partner deserves. Acting hysterically is not good for each other and it may probably ruin the relationship, too. Sit down with your partner and tell him/her what’s bugging there inside your mind. Lovers communicate well!