How to Catch a Cheater

How to Catch a Cheater

In the beginning of dating someone, trust is one of the biggest factors to be considered. Being open to your partner determines how deep your closeness is. Before you enter into a relationship, investigate one’s background especially what happened to his/her past relationships.  Remember, it’s better to hear the bitter truth rather than the sweetest lie.  Guard your heart before discovering something you wish you had not. Look at your partner and see what matches our list below:

Being defensive – the moment when you simply ask about something or someone, a one line question has a reply of like a one paragraph words.

Gets mad or distracted easily – even without the subject of a third party, the usual person you talk to has something unusual with what s/he does. Your partner’s mind is flying to something or someone else. Do you know the scenario of asking the same questions for so many times because he is not aware of his/her surroundings? Be curious about it and take note of his/her consistency in answering.

Changes what’s being talked about – whether this might be about a person, what s/he did on that particular day, or where his/her appointment may be, a sudden change of the subject happens. Or the worse thing is, you did not receive any response and pretend s/he did not hear or read anything from your messages.

Does not give straight answers – you are expecting a yes or a no answer and then s/he responded with an off-topic answer or a question, too. These include mostly uhm, what and why. One example is, “Did you talk to your ex-girlfriend in the office?” He says, “We did not eat lunch together.” Ladies and gentlemen, what’s with the lunch thing all about? Chances are, they actually talked, greeted, or even smiled at each other.

Does not look you in the eye – this last point is however, somehow tricky. A person who got used to lying knows and plans every move he executes. Beware!

With all those stated above, we should still give the trust that our partner deserves. Acting hysterically is not good for each other and it may probably ruin the relationship, too. Sit down with your partner and tell him/her what’s bugging there inside your mind. Lovers communicate well!